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Kink Checklist
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Spanking
Open-hand strikes to buttocks
Flogging
Multi-tailed leather or rope whip
Caning
Rigid cane strikes, often to buttocks or thighs
Paddling
Paddle strikes to buttocks
Whipping
Single-tail or signal whip
Slapping (face)
Open-hand face slapping
Belting
Leather belt as impact implement
Cropping
Riding crop strikes
Rope Bondage
Restraint using rope
Shibari / Kinbaku
Japanese-style decorative rope bondage
Handcuffs
Metal or leather handcuff restraints
Tape Bondage
Restraint using bondage or electrical tape
Mummification
Full-body wrapping in wrap, bandage, or tape
Suspension
Full or partial body suspension in rope
Spreader Bars
Rigid bar forcing limbs apart
Collar & Lead
Wearing a collar, with or without leash
Chastity
Orgasm denial via chastity device
Blindfolding
Sensory deprivation via blindfold
Gagging
Ball gag, bit gag, or cloth gag
Wax Play
Dripping hot wax on skin
Ice Play
Using ice for temperature contrast
Electrostimulation
Controlled electrical current via violet wand or e-stim devices
Needle Play
Sterile needle piercing for sensation
Knife Play
Using a blade for sensation without cutting
Wartenberg Wheel
Pinwheel dragged across skin for sharp sensation
Fire Play
Controlled use of open flame on skin
Tickling
Tickle torture, often in restraint
Biting
Controlled biting as sensation or marking
Scratching
Fingernails or tools dragged across skin
Daddy Dom / Little
Age regression or little space with a nurturing authority figure
Pet Play
Taking on an animal persona (kitten, puppy, pony, etc.)
Pup Play
Specifically puppy/dog headspace with handler
Primal Play
Instinct-driven predator/prey dynamic
Brat / Brat Tamer
Defiant submissive challenging a dominant to earn control
Master / Slave
Total authority and complete devotion in a structured dynamic
Owner / Pet
Ownership dynamic where the submissive is cherished as a pet
Teacher / Student
Authority and submission in an educational framing
Boss / Employee
Power exchange in a professional-setting roleplay
Interrogation
Captive/interrogator scenario with psychological intensity
Medical Play
Doctor/patient or clinical examination scenarios
Kidnap / Capture
Consensual non-consent scenario involving capture
Verbal Humiliation
Being called degrading names or spoken to dismissively
Objectification
Being treated as an object or piece of furniture
Public Humiliation
Humiliation performed in (discreet) public settings
Forced Positions
Being made to kneel, crawl, or hold a specific posture
Pet/Animal Treatment
Being treated as a pet: eating from a bowl, being leashed, etc.
Financial Domination
Power exchange centred on financial control or tribute
Body Worship
Being required to worship specific body parts
Orgasm Denial / Control
Dominant controls if, when, and how the submissive orgasms
Domestic Service
Cleaning, cooking, tidying as an act of submission
Boot / Foot Worship
Attending to the dominant's feet or boots as devotion
Protocol Rituals
Formal greetings, positions, and behaviours as daily ritual
Task Completion
Being assigned tasks and reporting their completion
Waiting on / Serving
Serving food, drinks, or physical comfort to the dominant
Exhibition
Being watched, displayed, or shown off
Voyeurism
Watching others with their knowledge and consent
Dressing / Undressing on Command
Being instructed to dress or undress for inspection
Photography (BDSM scenes)
Being photographed or filmed in scenes (consensual)
Erotic Dancing / Performance
Performing for a dominant as entertainment
Latex / Rubber
Wearing or being attracted to latex or rubber clothing
Leather
Leather clothing, gear, or restraints
Lingerie / Feminisation
Wearing feminine lingerie or clothing, regardless of gender
Uniforms
Nurse, military, police, maid, and other uniforms
Hoods & Masks
Leather hoods, gas masks, face restraints
Harnesses
Body or chest harnesses worn for aesthetics or restraint
Heels & Boots
High heels, boots, or specific footwear as part of the dynamic
Mindfuck / Psychological Play
Deliberate disorientation, ambiguity, or mental manipulation (consensual)
Hypnosis / Trance
Hypnotic induction used for arousal, suggestions, or deepening submission
Consensual Non-Consent (CNC)
Scenes where resistance is part of the agreed dynamic
Degradation (Psychological)
Being psychologically deconstructed or humiliated as a headspace tool
Ownership Dynamics
Collaring, claiming, and the psychological weight of belonging
Gaslighting Play
Consensual reality distortion as a power exchange tool
Aftercare
Post-scene physical and emotional care, yes, this is a preference
Cuddling / Body Contact
Physical closeness and holding as part of the dynamic
Body Hair Preferences
Preferences about hair removal as part of the dynamic
Sleep Restriction / Insomnia Play
Dominant control over sleeping arrangements or times
Feeding / Food Play
Being fed, food restrictions, or sensory food experiences
Breath Play
Controlled restriction of breath (high risk)
Blood Play
Consensual minor bloodletting or blood as ritual
Scarification Play
Consensual marking of skin
Extreme Bondage
High-duration or high-restriction restraint
Somnophilia
Arousal related to a sleeping or unconscious partner (requires explicit pre-consent)
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