Shop Directory

One of the biggest sexual wellness retailers in the world, Lovehoney has a substantial bondage and BDSM section including their own Bondage Boutique line. Known for discreet packaging, a one-year product guarantee, and a "Happiness Guarantee" that lets unhappy customers swap for something better.

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• Discreet packaging, no company branding
• Sex Toy Happiness Guarantee (swap if unhappy)
• One-year guarantee for account holders
• Official Fifty Shades licensed products
• 30-day returns on unopened items

One of the UK's largest adult retailers, shipping over 1.5 million orders a year. Winner of multiple ETO Best Online Retailer awards. Strong trans-inclusive range, they started stocking packers in 2012.

Ships to: UK and international

• Next-day delivery on UK orders
• Free delivery over £39.99
• Trans-inclusive product range
• 5% discount for registered members
• Discreet packaging throughout

The original internet source for BDSM gear, operating since 1988. Their in-house lines span leather and steel restraints, collars, cuffs, gags, electrosex equipment, and dungeon furniture. Their LA flagship store on Glendale Boulevard is a scene destination.

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• In business since 1988, the original online kink shop
• Everything from beginner kits to extreme gear
• In-house Stockroom-branded sleepsacks and hoods
• Educational content and product guides on-site

The retail arm of XR Brands. Their catalog includes a lot of niche items that mainstream shops don't bother stocking, vac beds, electrosex gear, medical play kit, suspension equipment, dungeon furniture.

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• Genuinely deep selection in niche categories
• Hard-to-find specialty items
• Discreet packaging
• Frequent sales on bigger-ticket items

The most established name in the Australian market, operating since 1993 with over a million customers served. 4.7-star Trustpilot average. Good bondage range covering restraints, floggers, rope, and impact toys.

Ships to: Australia and New Zealand

• Same-day shipping on most orders
• Best-price guarantee
• Member Rewards loyalty program
• Active warranty support

The benchmark for high-end fetish gear since 1979. They design and produce most of their bondage gear and leather in-house in San Francisco. Their Folsom Street location is a pilgrimage spot. Known for customer service that's near-legendary in the scene, faulty items replaced within hours.

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• Customer service replaces faulty items same-day
• Build quality that lasts decades
• They will repair hoods if neoprene begins to wear
• Handwritten notes tucked into orders
• K9 Puppy Hood line is best-in-class

Over 30 years manufacturing and retailing male fetish clothing. Their London workshop produces unique pieces in-house, and they're the official UK stockist for Mr S Leather and Fort Troff. 5-star Trustpilot across hundreds of reviews.

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• 5-star Trustpilot rating
• Official UK stockist for Mr S Leather and Fort Troff
• No transatlantic shipping delays
• Knowledgeable, friendly in-store team
• Fast shipping across Europe

Luxury BDSM brand with heavy emphasis on craftsmanship and design. Their signature trunk kits double as elegant storage furniture. Closer to high-end fashion than fetish-functional, pieces you're proud to display.

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• Storage trunks that look like genuine furniture
• Exceptional finish on metal collars and cuffs
• Beautiful presentation and packaging
• The Migratory Bird collar set is widely praised

One of the longest-running specialist leather shops in North America. Producing bespoke and ready-to-wear leather pieces on-site at their Toronto workshop since 1973. Specialists in custom work tailored to your measurements.

Ships to: International

• In business since 1973
• All pieces handcrafted on-site in Toronto
• Custom pieces to your exact measurements
• Haute fetish aesthetic

Trans-owned brand creating high-quality handmade leather goods for all genders since 1997. Best known for strap-on harnesses widely recommended in queer and feminist shops across North America. Welded D-rings and O-rings throughout for security.

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• Trans-owned and operated
• Welded hardware that won't fail under stress
• Hand-picked leather hides
• Long-standing reputation in queer leather community

Founded in 1989, Libidex was the first to design latex garments tailored from the actual human body, the Libidex fit became the industry standard. Their Covent Garden boutique Liberation is the only latex shop in central London. 5-star Trustpilot across over 2,600 reviews.

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• 5-star Trustpilot, 2,600+ reviews
• Wide size range including 4XL
• Co-founded Radical Rubber, the latex manufacturer
• Customers buying consistently since the early 2000s
• Size-matching service to prevent expensive returns

Every piece exclusively designed and handmade in England, individually cut to order. The aesthetic leans high-fashion and avant-garde. The Cirque-Bourgeois collection channels burlesque chic. Custom sizing as standard.

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• Every piece made to order by hand
• High-fashion aesthetic beyond just bedroom wear
• Custom sizing as standard
• Heritage in UK fetish scene

A pioneer in exclusive fetish clothing and high-quality latex since 1990. Founded on Amsterdam's Zeedijk, the brand organised the first major European fetish event in 1991. Notably welcoming to crossdressing and bigger sizes.

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• Decades of heritage in European latex scene
• Welcoming to crossdressing and plus sizes
• Handmade harnesses and belts
• Physical stores in multiple European cities

The most established name in the North American rope community. If you have to cut their rope during an emergency, they'll replace it free of charge. Their rope arrives ready to tie, no breaking in required.

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• Free replacement if you cut in an emergency
• Rope arrives ready-to-tie, fully conditioned
• Ethical sourcing with environmentally-approved dyes
• Shibari Study collaboration
• Educational blog including their Oooh to Ouch scale

Run by well-known shibari educator ESINEM, this shop sells some of the most respected jute in the European rope scene. The Ichiban range is praised for being genuinely ready-to-tie from the package. Single ropes from around £11.50 make it accessible as a starter rope.

Ships to: Europe and international

• Educator-backed credibility
• Genuinely pre-treated, ready to tie
• Best value for fully-treated natural fibre rope
• Pale, clean appearance and smell

The UK's first full-time shibari educational space, based in a Peckham railway arch. Hand-treated jute rope processed four days a week by a dedicated team. The beginner kit includes a 50% discount for the Shibari Study membership site. 4.7 stars across 411 verified reviews.

Ships to: Worldwide (free)

• Free worldwide shipping
• Hand-treated rope ready to use
• Shibari Study discount with beginner kit
• Consent-focused brand
• 4.7 stars, 411 verified reviews

The oldest dedicated shibari rope specialist in Japan, manufacturing since 1999. All ropes made in Japan from imported raw materials with JBO-free conditioning. The Nawaya Red is widely considered the most beautiful red shibari rope available.

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• 25+ years of dedicated shibari rope-making
• Made entirely by hand in Japan
• The richest natural fibre rope colours on the market
• Medium-lay rope that ages beautifully
• Available via SudoJute and resellers for easier shipping

German specialist with rigorous quality control, every batch is laboratory tested for purity and confirmed JBO-free. They work directly with jute growers and yarn mills. Vegan rope butter available.

Ships to: Worldwide (DDP rates for North America)

• Laboratory testing for purity on every batch
• 100% JBO-free (matters for skin safety)
• Full range from beginner to advanced rigger
• Negotiated international shipping rates
• Vegan rope butter option

Multi-award-winning UK manufacturer that designs, builds, and tests its own gear. Over 21 years in operation with a lifetime guarantee on power boxes and insertable electrodes. The Series 2B is widely regarded as the most powerful and flexible box on the market.

Ships to: Worldwide (DDP to US, Canada, Australia, NZ)

• Lifetime guarantee on key items
• Customer service catches missing cables before shipping
• DDP shipping, no surprise customs fees
• The 2B has cult status in the scene
• Educational content and regular podcast

The more design-forward of the major UK electroplay brands. Their Flick EM60 is widely recommended as the friendliest beginner entry point, with a soft starting sensation and 24 intensity levels.

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• Beginner-friendly design
• Flick feature adds extra jolt with hand motion
• 24 intensity levels and 7 patterns
• Clean industrial design

Long-standing favorites in the US electroplay scene. The ET232 and ET312B are known for smooth, refined modes. The ET-302R with remote control function is particularly popular for D/s scenes.

Ships to: USA primarily

• Very stable, smooth continuous mode
• Remote control option on the 302R
• US-based shipping
• Refined patterns preferred by many experienced users

The best-known sex furniture brand in the world. Wedges, ramps, sex chairs, BDSM-specific benches, and folding restraint-friendly furniture, most with discreet exterior covers so they look like normal bedroom pieces.

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• Discreet covers, looks like regular furniture
• Black Label folding bondage bench folds away for storage
• Free shipping on orders over $75
• Multiple colour and fabric options

Approaching 30 years in business. Their under-the-mattress restraint systems are arguably the single most-recommended first bondage purchase. No bedframe posts required.

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• Under-the-mattress restraints work on any bed
• Soft velcro cuffs, no risk of getting stuck
• Affordable entry point
• Holds up over years of use

Currently the most popular fucking machine brand in the consumer market. The patented KlicLok quick-connect system makes swapping attachments tool-free. App control plus wired remote plus dial, no forced app use.

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• KlicLok attachment system
• App control + wired remote + dial
• Quiet operation (under 50dB)
• 30-day money back, 1-year warranty
• Strong customer service

Portable suspension and rigging frames that set up and tear down in minutes. Supports up to 300 pounds dynamic load. Built from high-strength aluminium alloy. Good for renters or anyone without structural ceiling beams.

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• Assembles in minutes, weighs ~33 pounds
• 300lb dynamic load capacity
• Fits standard 8-foot ceilings
• No drilling into ceilings or walls
• Made in the USA

A husband-and-wife operation that has made over 20,000 custom cages by hand since 2009. Their Jail Bird is one of the most-recommended cages in the chastity community. Personal consultations from "Mistress Mature Metal" diagnose fit issues that other makers miss.

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• 20,000+ cages made by hand
• Custom ball gap sizing, uniquely available
• Personal consultation before ordering
• 316L surgical stainless steel
• Customer service called "impeccable"

If Mature Metal is the workhorse, Steelwerks is the bespoke jewelry. Every piece custom-designed in collaboration with the buyer. Customization can go down to screws that no commercially-available tool will fit. The website is a portfolio, not a catalog.

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• Considered the top of the chastity market
• Full bespoke from initial consultation
• Pieces feel like jewelry rather than hardware
• Anti-tamper screw options

One of the first makers to bring 3D printing seriously to chastity. Their plastic-to-titanium upgrade path lets you nail sizing before committing to expensive metal. Custom engraving (partner's name) available.

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• Start in plastic, upgrade to titanium once fit is right
• Custom engraving options
• Comfortable for long-term wear
• Forward-thinking consultation approach

Dutch company making mid-priced stainless steel cages with a strong focus on sizing. Every package includes seven different hinged back ring sizes plus locking pins and spacers. Designed for 24/7 wear.

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• Seven ring sizes included in every package
• Adjustable gap between ring and cage
• European shipping
• Solid construction at a reasonable price

Custom 3D-printed devices in surgical-grade nylon. The TouchStop honeycomb variants inhibit tactile contact. Custom resizing costs around $75 flat, well below custom metal makers.

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• Surgical-grade nylon construction
• Honeycomb TouchStop variants
• Custom resizing at $75 flat
• Active designer engagement with community

The dedicated pup hood specialist most often recommended as best value. Official hood-maker for Mr Puppy UK, Italy, France and others. Machine-washable, latex-free neoprene. Custom design service, submit your own artwork.

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• Official hood-maker for multiple Mr Puppy competitions
• Glasses-friendly fit
• Custom design service from your own artwork
• Starter hoods for claustrophobia
• Machine-washable and latex-free

Mr S's K9 Puppy Hood line is arguably the most-loved leather and neoprene hood range in pup play. Custom colour choices for brow, muzzle, and inner ears. Removable muzzle so you can eat and drink without breaking headspace.

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• Customisable colour combinations
• Removable muzzle for practical use
• Repair policy if neoprene wears
• Described as "works of art"

One of the most recognised names in European fetish since 1994. Own-brand leather and rubber clothing, harnesses, and SM accessories. Their Amsterdam flagship at Prinsengracht 192 is a scene destination with private fitting rooms and a coffee corner.

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• 30+ years in European fetish scene
• Made-to-measure leather service
• Welcoming flagship store with private fitting rooms
• Present at major fetish events worldwide

Celebrating its 50th anniversary, one of the longest-running fetish retailers in the world. Flagship stores in both Amsterdam and Berlin. Deep range of customisable leather pieces, specify colour, stripes, and padding on many items.

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• 50 years in operation
• Customisable leather on many items
• Deep electroplay and accessory ranges
• Two physical stores for European customers

Founded in 1993 in Seattle, Babeland set the template for feminist sex retail. Staff are educators first. Shopping is organised by purpose rather than gender. In 2016 their NYC stores became the first US sex shops to unionize.

Ships to: USA primarily

• Staff trained as sex educators
• Purpose-based (not gendered) product organisation
• Regular workshops and educational events
• Bright, welcoming atmosphere

Only non-porous, sanitizable, non-toxic toys stocked. After discovering phthalates in their first product shipment in 2003, the founders started the Coalition Against Toxic Toys to push for industry change. Specialities include products for sex and aging, sex and cancer, and accessibility.

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• Strict body-safety policy, no toxic materials
• Founded the Coalition Against Toxic Toys
• Specialist areas: aging, cancer recovery, accessibility
• Education-first customer service

The original feminist sex shop, founded in 1977, that created the template for sex-positive retail. They trained a generation of feminist sex educators. Deep BDSM section relative to other feminist shops. Almost 50 years of accumulated expertise.

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• Almost 50 years in business, the original
• Educator-trained staff
• Deep BDSM section
• Strong educational content

The world's only worker-owned sex shop cooperative. No commission, no profit motive on individual sales. In-house warranty on every item. Strong accessibility focus. 10% discount for sex workers and sex educators every day.

Ships to: Canada and USA

• Worker-owned cooperative, no commission incentive
• In-house warranty on every item
• 10% daily discount for sex workers and educators
• Accessibility-focused for diverse bodies

The largest producer of silicone sex toys in the USA. All products from high-grade medical silicone. First to introduce silicone toys to mainstream adult buyers (ANME 2000). Their Kink line includes 100% ultra-premium silicone gags and paddles, far easier to sanitise than leather or rubber.

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• Medical-grade silicone throughout
• Silicone gags and paddles are fully sanitisable
• Aftercare cream line with arnica and chamomile
• National Leather Association International President's Award

Meticulously handcrafted brand specialising in traditional braided leather work. Each piece reflects years of mastery and uses premium-grade leathers selected for strength and texture.

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• Traditional braided leather craft
• Perfect balance of sting and thud
• Custom work delivered quickly
• Pieces that feel like investments

Queer-owned shop focused entirely on bondage accessories for restraint, impact, and sensation play. Custom-built floggers in buckskin, cowhide, pig suede, and elk. Also sells titanium-bonded steel rings and rated climbing carabiners for suspension.

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• Queer-owned with strong community values
• Vegan leather and rubber fall options
• Safety-rated suspension hardware
• Custom builds as standard (5-7 weeks)
• POSH rope as hemp alternative

Lifetime warranty on every product, which is unusual in the indie kink space. Metallic leather floggers with finger-loop swivel handles are a signature piece. Price points starting under $40.

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• Lifetime warranty on every item
• Wide range of price points from under $40
• Lightweight designs easy on the wrists
• Violet wand accessories

Collars and chokers designed for day-to-day wear that don't broadcast "kink" in vanilla contexts. Beautiful, sturdy craftsmanship with personal communication from the seller. Limited run pieces.

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• Wearable every day without drawing attention
• Personal seller communication
• Limited edition witchy and goth-inspired pieces
• Beautiful, robust craftsmanship

The publisher behind almost every classic English-language kink reference book. Founded in 1991 by Janet W. Hardy. Over 50 titles including The New Topping/Bottoming Book, SM 101, The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage, and The Ethical Slut. Sales topped 100,000 books a year at peak.

Ships to: Worldwide via retailers

• The New Topping Book / The New Bottoming Book (Easton & Hardy)
• SM 101 by Jay Wiseman, the definitive beginner's reference
• The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage by Midori
• The Ethical Slut, foundational polyamory/kink ethics text
• Toybag Guide series on specific kink topics

The largest independent sexuality publisher in the US. Founded in 1980. Distributed by Simon & Schuster. Two-time Firecracker Award winner. Roughly 40 new titles a year spanning literary erotica, kink how-to guides, and queer non-fiction.

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• The Ultimate Guide to Kink edited by Tristan Taormino
• Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships
• The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability
• Carrie's Story by Molly Weatherfield (Playboy's 25 Sexiest Novels Ever)
• Deep catalogue of edited erotica anthologies

The largest online rope education subscription service. Instructors include Gorgone, Gestalta, Hajime Kinoko, Fred Hatt and Anna Bones. Weekly live-streamed classes, offline downloads, and a moderated community space. Pricing varies by location for global accessibility.

Ships to: Online subscription from $17.90/month (free trial)

• Multiple world-class instructors in one platform
• Weekly live-streamed classes
• Offline download support
• Consent demonstrations built into curriculum
• Free 7-day trial

Buy courses once, keep forever, no subscription. Free Shibari 101 covers safety, rope selection, and basic knots. The Shibari Certificate spans five courses and 80+ ties. First-person camera angles mimic doing the ties yourself.

Ships to: Online, one-time purchase

• Lifetime access, no ongoing subscription
• Free Shibari 101 as low-risk entry point
• Heavy emphasis on consent and communication
• Clear structured progression
• Over 100,000 students

One of the longest-running general kink education platforms, with over 2,000 videos by 140+ educators. Covers BDSM technique, communication, identity, ethics, and relationship structures. Proceeds from their MetaKink series go to Black-led social justice organisations.

Ships to: Online, freemium

• 2,000+ vetted instructional videos
• 140+ educators with diverse approaches
• Free podcast on Spotify
• MetaKink live discussions on bigger-picture topics
• Proceeds support social justice causes

The only online store 100% dedicated to needle play and medical fetish. 250+ genuine medical-grade products from trusted UK and European medical suppliers. Donated stock to the NHS during COVID-19, earning coverage that confirmed what they sell is the real thing.

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• Genuine medical-grade equipment, not novelty kink
• NHS-donated stock established real-deal credibility
• Organised by procedure type for ease of use
• Madame Li Ying's Medical School educational blog
• Note: for trained adults, activities that break skin require proper preparation